10 Must-haves For Your Boudoir Shoot!
everything you need to feel confident, sexy, and ready to slay your session!
Thinking about booking a boudoir session—or already have one on the calendar? Cue the butterflies! Whether you're still deciding or officially locked in, this list is here to help you feel prepared, inspired, and totally excited for the experience.
Boudoir is all about celebrating your beauty, your story, and your power—and a little preparation goes a long way in helping you feel confident and camera-ready.
1. Lingerie That Makes You Feel Sexy
Choose pieces that make you feel amazing—whether it’s lace, mesh, silk, strappy, or even nothing at all. Your lingerie doesn’t have to be over-the-top; sometimes simple is just as powerful. Go for pieces that hug your curves and make you feel unstoppable.
And once you’ve booked your session with me, you’ll receive a full prep guide with tips on what flatters different body types, where to shop, and how to build a wardrobe that makes you feel like a queen.
2. Heels
Heels can completely transform the way you carry yourself. They lengthen your legs, enhance your posture, and add a fierce, feminine energy to your images. Bring a pair (or two!) that make you feel confident, even if we only wear them for a few poses. Bonus points if they’re your wedding shoes or a spicy pop of color.
Pro tip: Closed-toe heels tend to photograph best in boudoir—think classic pumps or pointed-toe stilettos for that timeless, leg-lengthening effect.
3. Something Personal from Your Partner (or Just for You!)
Bringing something that belongs to your partner—like a button-down shirt, jersey, or favorite hoodie—adds a sweet, intimate layer to your session, especially if you’re gifting the photos to them. It’s a fun way to weave them into the story without them being in the room.
And if this shoot is a celebration of you (because you absolutely deserve that!), consider bringing something personal that reflects who you are—maybe a favorite tee, a meaningful necklace, or something from a special chapter of your life. This is your moment, and those little touches help make it even more powerful.
4. Stockings or Thigh-Highs
They add instant allure and elevate just about any look. I personally recommend VienneMilano for luxury thigh-highs—they stay up, feel amazing, and photograph beautifully. Whether lace, sheer, or fishnet, stockings are a timeless way to bring out your inner seductress.
They pair beautifully with garter belts, bodysuits, or even layered under an oversized sweater or button-down. From behind the camera, stockings add texture, shape, and just the right touch of drama—especially in those leg-elongating poses.
5. Lotion for Glowing Skin
Hydrated skin looks smooth, radiant, and extra touchable in photos. Apply a good body lotion (or a light body oil) the morning of your shoot, focusing on arms, legs, and décolletage. Avoid anything too greasy or sparkly unless you’ve tested it before. Your skin will thank you—and so will the camera.
6. Bridal Accessories (If You're a Bride!)
A veil, garter, or your wedding shoes are beautiful additions to your shoot if you're prepping for the big day. They instantly tell your bridal story and make your images feel more personal and romantic.
You can also bring a delicate white lace set, a sheer bridal robe, or anything you plan to wear on your wedding night. Plus, it’s the perfect time to break in those gorgeous heels or test out your wedding-day glam before the big reveal.
7. An Oversized Sweater, Leather Jacket, or Layer You Love
These pieces add cozy, casual, or edgy vibes to your shoot. A slouchy sweater feels soft and flirty, while a leather jacket brings out your inner badass.
Want something a little different? A structured blazer over lingerie gives off a high-fashion, boss energy, and a flannel shirt is perfect for cozy, rustic, or fall-inspired vibes.
From behind the lens, layers like these add contrast, movement, and versatility. They give you something to play with during posing and help bring out different sides of your personality throughout your shoot.
8. Boudoir Props (Wine Glass, Bourbon Bottle, Book, etc.)
Props are a great way to infuse your personality into the session. Whether it’s a glass of wine, your favorite book, disco balls, sun hats, or even a bold red lipstick—you do you. These little touches help create a vibe, set the mood, and make the session feel uniquely yours.
And if you want to take things to the next level, I offer luxury upgrades that include rose petals, flowy fabrics, and statement body jewelry—all designed to elevate your shoot with softness, movement, and a bit of bold sparkle.
9. A Robe for Hair & Makeup (or to Photograph In!)
A silky or cozy robe is great for staying comfortable while you’re getting glam, and it can also be used as part of your session. Robes work beautifully for "just getting out of bed" shots or subtle reveals. If you’re someone who likes a slow, sensual buildup in your photos, this one’s for you.
You can go classic with satin and lace or cozy with something plush—either way, a robe adds softness and elegance to your story.
10. A Confident, Positive Attitude
This is the most important thing you can bring—more than any outfit, prop, or pair of heels. Confidence doesn’t mean you have it all figured out—it means you’re showing up for yourself, even if you’re a little nervous.
You don’t need to know how to pose or feel 100% ready. That’s where I come in. I’ll guide you through every movement, every moment, helping you feel safe, beautiful, and empowered.
This is your permission slip to show up exactly as you are and still shine. You are worthy of being seen, celebrated, and photographed—just as you are. I’ve watched women walk into my studio shy and unsure—and leave glowing, radiant, and fully owning their power. That transformation is what I live for.
Bonus Tip: Planning an Outdoor Boudoir Session?
If we’re shooting outside—on the beach, in the woods, or a dreamy flower field—think about pieces that move and flow. Lightweight sweaters, long skirts, or even going barefoot can bring your natural surroundings to life. I’ll guide you on how to dress for wind, sun, or even unexpected weather—because Mother Nature always keeps us on our toes.
Ready to Pack for Your Shoot?
I’ve got the camera—you bring the confidence (and your favorite heels).
Whether you’ve already booked or you’re still deciding if boudoir is right for you, I want you to know this: you are worthy of this experience. Boudoir isn’t just about photos—it’s about showing up for yourself, claiming your power, and celebrating the beauty that’s always been there.
Still unsure what to bring or how to prepare? Once you book, you’ll receive my full prep guide with wardrobe tips for every body type, my favorite places to shop, and styling advice to help you feel 100% ready. I’m here to walk you through every detail—from outfits to posing to how to let go of the nerves.
You don’t have to feel “ready.” You just have to say yes to yourself.
